I saw a post by @jusswhitchurch the other day which got me thinking.
A strong indication that you’re not feeling good about yourself is when you stop putting effort in.
Your jeans get tight so you start to wear tights everywhere, because comfort.
You stop putting effort into your make up because you don’t feel great about yourself already so what difference is a face going to make?
You already don’t feel your best so you just don’t try.
You start wearing baggier clothes to hide yourself, not bright and vibrant clothes that make you feel amazing.
You stop getting your hair done, or getting your eyebrows waxed because what’s the point right? You’re gross anyway.
You start not putting your hand up at work because your ideas are silly.
You start wanting to blend into the furniture rather than standing out.
Not putting in any effort makes you feel even worse about yourself. That, in turn, makes you feel even more unworthy and unattractive.
EVEN if you don’t feel your best.
EVEN if you want to give up.
EVEN if you feel like you’re ugly and what’s the point.
No matter how you feel - get up, dress up, show up and never give up.
Do it for you.
Because you’re worth it - 5 hours ago