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PhalanJones

Motivational thinker.

Mood this morning 😊

Mood this morning - 7 days ago

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Regularness.

Regularness. - 8 days ago

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I’m all for women’s rights I just don’t believe that we have to separate them from our men in order to make it happen. Whether it’s equal pay or rape culture having those uncomfortable conversations & addressing our demons amongst one another makes us stronger. When I have an issue with someone I don’t gather up a group of people who have that same issue & discuss that person, I go get that person & work through it. You may mean no harm by calling yourself a feminist but check the origins of that movement before you go too hard.

I’m all for women’s rights I just don’t believe that we have to separate them from our men in order to make it happen. Whether it’s equal pay or rape culture having those uncomfortable conversations & addressing our demons amongst one another makes us stronger. When I have an issue with someone I don’t gather up a group of people who have that same issue & discuss that person, I go get that person & work through it. You may mean no harm by calling yourself a feminist but check the origins of that movement before you go too hard. - 9 days ago

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Making these adjustments, not settling for nothin’

Making these adjustments, not settling for nothin’ - 11 days ago

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When you’re controlled by people who’ve mastered psychological manipulation it’s very possible to enslave any group of people. I’m almost certain there were PLENTY of undocumented people or groups who raised hell as well. And I’m not gone argue under this post, you can talk to yourself.

When you’re controlled by people who’ve mastered psychological manipulation it’s very possible to enslave any group of people. I’m almost certain there were PLENTY of undocumented people or groups who raised hell as well. And I’m not gone argue under this post, you can talk to yourself. - 18 days ago

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Serene.

Serene. - 21 days ago

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This is for anyone who’s ever felt any kind of depression or lost their self confidence. Just stop giving a fuck, PERIOD. We live in a consumer cultural society where everything is about looking, seeming or acting perfect. We think having more more more means a better life but I believe the experience of a better life comes from what’s in you, not on you. It’s okay to want a million dollar home, a boomin business & expensive things but don’t let the everyday life you live be consumed by it. “The desire for more positive experience is itself a negative experience. And paradoxically, the acceptance of ones negative experience is itself a positive experience.”

This is for anyone who’s ever felt any kind of depression or lost their self confidence. Just stop giving a fuck, PERIOD. We live in a consumer cultural society where everything is about looking, seeming or acting perfect. We think having more more more means a better life but I believe the experience of a better life comes from what’s in you, not on you. It’s okay to want a million dollar home, a boomin business & expensive things but don’t let the everyday life you live be consumed by it. “The desire for more positive experience is itself a negative experience. And paradoxically, the acceptance of ones negative experience is itself a positive experience.” - 22 days ago

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Differentiating connections & attachments.. A connection is similar to walking a dog with a magical leash. The dog can run free as far as he wants but will always b on the other end of that magical leash. Now replace that magical leash with some sort of tough sticky tacky and imagine it being attached to your skin & the dog.. when the dog takes off running that tacky will stretch, become hard & eventually cause pain to your skin the further away it gets from you. This is the difference between a connection & an attachment. Connection is light as a feather, attachment is bares weight & causes pain.

Differentiating connections & attachments.. A connection is similar to walking a dog with a magical leash. The dog can run free as far as he wants but will always b on the other end of that magical leash. Now replace that magical leash with some sort of tough sticky tacky and imagine it being attached to your skin & the dog.. when the dog takes off running that tacky will stretch, become hard & eventually cause pain to your skin the further away it gets from you. This is the difference between a connection & an attachment. Connection is light as a feather, attachment is bares weight & causes pain. - 26 days ago

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Burning up in Houston.

Burning up in Houston. - 26 days ago

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Man, that toxicity will spill over on you.. Crabs in a bucket.

Man, that toxicity will spill over on you.. Crabs in a bucket. - 29 days ago

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Work on breaking the cycle for your daughters, sisters, cousins, aunties WHOEVER. They like to call it Sowing wild oats, but don’t want to talk about when those oats grow.

Work on breaking the cycle for your daughters, sisters, cousins, aunties WHOEVER. They like to call it Sowing wild oats, but don’t want to talk about when those oats grow. - 30 days ago

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Picture break.

Picture break. - 1 month ago

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It’s easy to stand it when everything is going right.. but when you meet adversity & challenges understanding your position is everything.. You find your light in your darkness

It’s easy to stand it when everything is going right.. but when you meet adversity & challenges understanding your position is everything.. You find your light in your darkness - 1 month ago

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Real life tired though.

Real life tired though. - 1 month ago

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Clips from my visit to Roberson middle to talk with Westfield HS Duchess @d_queens_96 Thank you for inviting me @kosherdillpickl ❤️ @chonnga on the small clip.

Clips from my visit to Roberson middle to talk with Westfield HS Duchess @d_queens_96 Thank you for inviting me @kosherdillpickl @chonnga on the small clip. - 1 month ago

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